How did you discover your love of underwear, swim briefs, spandex, and gear?
I would always admire guys on underwear packaging growing up. Then the internet came along, and that opened a world of inspiration. I was always wearing whatever my mother bought me (usually nasty cheap multipacks) until I finally got a bank card and some money coming in. I remember one of the first pairs I ever bought was a pair of Aussiebum Wonderjock boxer briefs with the enlarge it pouch. To be honest, they weren’t that comfortable, but I fell in love with how underwear could change the shape of your body, depending on what you wore.
What are your favorite styles to wear, and why do you prefer them?
Currently, I’m really into thongs, closely followed by jockstraps and briefs. I like thongs because they are like a naughty little secret that if you saw me on the street, you would never guess I would be wearing something like that.
I like to be a little different, and thongs do that for me. Jockstraps, although fun, seems to be everywhere but thongs haven’t become quite so mainstream yet.
They are also awesome for wearing under tights in the gym because you can’t see the underwear lines, which drives me insane. Thongs are also seen as both a more feminine style of underwear as well as super masculine. There is a certain confidence that comes with wearing such a small amount of material — showing off yet still covered.
Why did you first start posting pics in underwear?
I didn’t necessarily start posting underwear on purpose. I used to have a pretty successful NSFW blog (now deleted) on Tumblr, where I posted all sorts of pics. My Instagram was to support that. But obviously, certain things had to be covered for Instagram so naturally underwear to the rescue. For about five years, I would only post photos from the neck down because I wasn’t confident enough in myself to show who I was. It was only in January 2019 that I started anew and started showing my face too.
Do your friends know about your IG and live if undies?
My closest ones do. Perks of moving to a new country… My friend group is pretty small. Generally, if people ask for my Instagram or want to follow me, then I have to warn them first. I have blocked most of the people that I work with, though… Sometimes you just need to make life easier for yourself.
What have been some of the positive things that have happened since you started posting? Did you have any negative experiences?
I never started posting pictures with any specific goal in mind. One thing that I found is that my self-confidence went through the roof. I was always a super skinny kid and was always shy and refused to be in photos. By taking photos of myself where I feel sexy and good looking really helped me get out of my own head. What you see in the mirror isn’t necessarily the truth. Sometimes you need other people to help you see that. 100% I would not be the man I am today without the confidence that I’ve gained from posting these things online.
The only negative that I’ve ever really had is someone in the year above me in my department in college found out about my blog and pictures. He made a fake account with my real name and tried to talk to me using it. It properly freaked me out, and I blocked it. Not really sure whatever happened to him or that account, but it did properly scare me for a while especially since I wasn’t out at the time.
No matter the body type, there are always people who will criticize you that you’re too big, too small, too young, too old, how do you deal with those?
Fuck them. People have one chance with me. I’m open to constructive criticism, but if you’re mean or nasty, there’s a block button, and I’m not afraid to use it. Life is hard enough without the negativity of random strangers on the internet. If someone isn’t helping you grow, then don’t be afraid to say bye to them.
One thing I have discovered is guys into underwear tend to be awesome guys. Have you made any friends that you may not have met otherwise?
So many. Like really. I have friends all over the world because of posting pictures in my underwear. One of my closest friends that I workout with found me on Instagram and messaged me asking where I got a thong. He lived in Vancouver… the city that I was planning on moving to 3 months later. He and his husband met me the day after I arrived and we have been friends since.
Some of my closest friends I have never even met, but I talk to them daily online. It’s my goal if I ever win the lotto to visit all of them.
It always blows my mind how amazing social media can be. True friendship have been formed over the years, and I wouldn’t trade them for anything!
What is your favorite color of Underwear?
Generally black, but I do love my hot pink Joe Snyder thong!
Lastly, What is your favorite social media to post on? And what is your name on there?
As much as I hate their current censorship, Instagram is my go-to place to post. There isn’t really any other social media that comes close for me. I just wish they were more accepting of ALL communities and what they want to post. You can find me at ardjg.
How did you discover your love of underwear, swim briefs, spandex, and gear?
I always used to just buy basic three packs at a big box store and never gave underwear much thought but then Instagram helped me see how many brands and styles are out there as well as giving me an idea of the fit. I started buying a few pairs here and there and eventually learned what I like and what makes me feel good about myself. I think there is something very empowering about feeling confident in nothing but underwear.
What are your favorite styles to wear?
For me, I prefer briefs, bikini briefs, and jocks. I have a couple of pair of basic boxers that I wear around the house occasionally fort the “airy” feeling.
Why did you first start posting pics in underwear?
I started posting pics of myself in underwear after I got myself to a point of feeling comfortable and confident in them. I keep posting as it is a good and subtle way I hold myself accountable for meeting my goals and to keep pushing myself forward. Also, the positive reinforcement from many people out there feels really nice and is appreciated so much!
If you have a partner/husband/wife are the supportive of you sharing your love of underwear?
I think my partner waffles on how I freely show my underwear exhibitionism. He gets into it but sometimes there is a lot of eyerolling in the house. 😉
Do your friends know about your IG and live if undies?
Some do, some don’t. I try to casually keep some sides of me separate from my social circles.
What have been some of the positive things that have happened since you started posting? Did you have any negative experiences?
Getting to know some very nice people with the same interest has been a lot of fun. There are a lot of very nice people out there who are just trying to live their lives and have fun along the way. Again, the positive feedback I have received from perfect strangers has been really nice and very much appreciated. I have had some negative experiences with some of my straight friends. I had to transition a few of them off my IG account. The occasional stalker pops-up here and there too but not very often. Sometimes, you just try to be cordial and polite but the other person can take it way out of context.
No matter the body type there are always people who will criticize you that you’re too big, too small, too young, too old, how do you deal with those?
I pay it no mind. If someone has the instinct, energy, and time to criticize a stranger online, then that speaks volumes to how sad their life must be and how insecure they are about themselves.
One thing I have discovered is guys into underwear tend to be awesome guys. Have you made any friends that you may not have met otherwise?
I have! I have met some very nice guys out there. Actually gone underwear shopping with a couple of them and had a great time!
What is your favorite color of Underwear?
Plain white is my absolute favorite. Leaves the least to the imagination and is just a classic look.
Lastly, What is your favorite social media to post on? And what is your name on there?
How did you discover your love of underwear, swim briefs, spandex, and gear?
We have always loved playing around with different styles of underwear. But honestly, it was probably porn that initially made us fall in love with underwear. Growing up men’s underwear was also very boring and bland. Porn really opened our eyes to the world of sexy men’s underwear.
What are your favorite styles to wear?
Jockstraps are definitely our favorite style because they show off the booty- duh! Haha
Why did you first start posting pics in underwear?
We have always enjoyed taking sexy pictures (both together and for each other) but they never really our phone’s photo album. We spontaneously decided one day to create a joint IG account where we could have an outlet for our more risqué photos. It’s always fun to try and sneak a sexy underwear pic in public places
Do your friends know about your IG and live if undies?
Most of our family and friends are blocked from our IG account, but now we’ve made so many friends through IG who share the same love of undies as us! 🙂
What have been some of the positive things that have happened since you started posting? Did you have any negative experiences?
The best part of creating 312husbands has been all of the cool people that we have met because of the pics that we have posted. We’ve gone to visit Instagram friends in different cities around the US, and plenty have come to visit us in Chicago.
We haven’t really had any negative experiences from posting photos?
Due to the naughty nature of our photos guys often assume that we are open and will try to flirt with us individually but we are actually not an open couple. One of the key factors to keeping our marriage successful is not doing anything behind each other’s backs.
No matter the body type there are always people who will criticize you that you’re too big, too small, too young, too old, how do you deal with those?
You gotta let criticism slide of your back. If you post photos for adoration and attention then you probably shouldn’t be doing it. Only do it because you have fun taking pictures and you really don’t care what anyone else thinks of them.
One thing I have discovered is guys into underwear tend to be awesome guys. Have you made any friends that you may not have met otherwise?
Absolutely! We’ve made lots of fun underwear-loving friends through Instagram. We’re all just normal guys who share a love of fun, sexy underwear.
What is your favorite color of Underwear?
Black- it’s classically sexy.
Lastly, What is your favorite social media to post on? And what is your name on there?
How did you discover your love of underwear, swim briefs, spandex and gear ?
Hmmmm. Well I would say it was walking around the isles of Walmart as like a preteen and seeing the hot guys in jockstraps on the boxes in the sports isles. Their butts looked amazing and they just looked so perfect! So my obsession started from there and only continued with a love of speedos, thongs, skimpy briefs.
What are you favorite styles to wear?
When I wanna feel sexy jock or thong. On a normal day at work or family friendly I vote for like a bikini brief.
Why did you first start posting pics in underwear?
Well I had always been super skinny and unhappy with my body so when I started working out more and putting on size I started feeling more comfortable with who I was and wanted to be a little freer with my body.
Do you friends know about your IG and live if undies?
Oh yeah! They know I have like a hundred pairs and they always comment stupid shit on my Instagram! Haha
What have been some of the positive things that have happened since you started posting ? Did you have any negative experiences?
Well lots of people have reached out and asked about fitness and putting on muscle and gaining weight. I hate playing the, it’s tough to be skinny, but for some people being skinny isn’t a blessing when you aren’t happy with your body. So I’m glad that I can offer advice or encouragement to people in a situation that was similar to mine!
A few negative comments but it’s just people trolling or ones who have too much time on their hands. So I try not to pay attention!
No matter the body type there are always people who will criticize you that you’re too big, too small, too young, too old, how do you deal with those?
Just knowing that certain people will always find faults in others, helps me get through like negative comments. It’s not me that they are dissatisfied with, its themselves.
One thing I have discovered is guys into underwear tend to be awesome guys. Have you made any friends that you may not have met otherwise?
I have meet quiet a few people on Instagram and in my real life who share my obsession. It’s a funny thing to connect about, but it’s nice to know that if one of them ever see a sale or a good deal on some thongs/jocks they think of me!!!
what is your favorite color of Underwear?
Blue or pink! My two favorite colors!!
Lastly, What is your favorite social media to post on? And what is your name on there?
How did you discover your love of underwear, swim briefs, spandex and gear?
I’ve always liked dressing up – cosplay, Halloween costumes, stage plays, etc. My first boyfriend liked to buy me sexy underwear as gifts and it sorta stuck. It was later I discovered the leather community and my mind was blown. I’ve been totally hooked on gear ever since.
What are you favorite styles to wear?
Jocks! Mesh jocks, sports jocks, pretty much anything with the butt cut out. I like the peek a boo effect, but whatever I wear MUST have a pouch. Otherwise everything up front is crushed.
Why did you first start posting pics in underwear?
I used to be that kid who wore a shirt in the swimming pool. As I gained confidence and had a few photographers ask to shoot with me, I was proud to show off. I’m not a big bulky guy, and sometimes people still call me “too skinny” but I’m happy with my body now.
If you have a partner/husband/wife are the supportive of you sharing your love of underwear?
I’m dating someone, and he helped me pick out an incredibly sexy mesh thong for my next shoot. Provided I model it for him first, of course!
Do your friends know about your IG and love if undies?
Oh yes they’re extremely aware and also very supportive.
What have been some of the positive things that have happened since you started posting ? Did you have any negative experiences?
I’ve had some haters, but overall I’ve met some great people on social media. Sometimes they also become friends in real life – especially the cosplayers, when we meet up at conventions. I used to worry that I might come across as a total narcissist, but hopefully my humor comes through. I never try to be sexy, or even think I’m sexy, but I’m confident – which people find sexy.
No matter the body type there are always people who will criticize you that you’re too big, too small, too young, too old, how do you deal with those?
Oh I’ve heard I’m too thin and feminine my whole life. Somewhere along the way I embraced those things as part of myself rather than a negative. If being too skinny or too gay makes people react to me negatively, that’s their shit not mine. Like, who cares? They don’t put a roof over my head, food on my plate or clothes on my back, so they really don’t have any impact on my life. What’s great about social is that you can delete and block.
One thing I have discovered is guys into underwear tend to be awesome guys. Have you made any friends that you may not have met otherwise?
Oh hell yes! I’m into all body types, and love how undies look on different guys. So, I follow a lot of underwear enthusiasts and our mutual fetish makes us fast friends.
What is your favorite color of Underwear?
Black is a classic but white shoes off a little more – I also like green and blue. I really can’t just pick one!
Lastly, What is your favorite social media to post on? And what is your name on there?
How did you discover your love of underwear, swim briefs, spandex andgear ?
Ha–a probably wondering the aisles as a closeted little gay boy trying to get glimpse of the bulges.
What are you favorite styles to wear?
Briefs because they comfortable and Jockstraps because they’re sexy
photo by @prestonburford
Why did you first start posting pics in underwear?
Sexy sells? I’d post a photo clothed then post one in underwear and that alwaya seemed to be a lot more popular…so–give the people what they want (I’m a pleaser– I guess).
If you have a partner/husband/wife are the supportive of you sharing your love of underwear?
I have been seeing someone, its still new and we’re feeling it out, but he certainly loves to show off. When he pulls down his pants I never can predict whats going to be under there.
Photo by @fweecarter
Do you friends know about your IG and live if undies?
Ha, yes—some unfollowed me. They said they would get embarrassed to scroll through their feed and have a pic of my crotch or ass show up. So then I made a more personal account for Friends and Family to follow.
What have been some of the positive things that have happened since you started posting? Did you have any negative experiences?
I’ve had differently companies reach out and send my pairs, so I’ve got to discover and try a lot of new brands. I got to try underwear I typically would never buy. For example, I’m not into thongs really, but I Charlie by MZ makes a vegan “leather” thong that looks almost like a jock strap. Its the 2nd thong I’ve ever put on but looked good and felt fun to wear, so I’ve been able to explore and try new things and am surprised whenever I like something a little outside my standards.
No matter the body type there are always people who will criticize you that you’re too big, too small, too young, too old, how do you deal with those?
As Kesha sings “Don’t let the Bastards get you down.” I’ve had people tell me all sorts of things–just the other day I had some guy DM me to tell me I looked fat in the last picture I posted. In general I just presume any harsh comments stem from the person’s of insecurities and try not to take it personally. I know that I look through Instagram and see men who’s body is better than mine, or bulge is bigger, or butt is…bubblier. Now having taking some of these types photos I can see that a lot of that is due to lighting, angles, digital manipulation, steroids or implants. In general I try to keep my photos more natural. I don’t always have abs, some days I do, but most often I don’t. Before a photo shoot I’ll work out, hardly eat, to look good for the photos–also, during the shoot there’s a lot of flexing while trying to look like your not flexing…anyway, what I’m getting at is that we are comparing ourselves to the unattainable ideals, making us feel inferior. When we compare, we all feel it and each deal with that in different ways–some folks lash out and choose to troll, while I try to use it to motivate me at the gym or to eat healthy. But in general we need to try to compare ourselves less.
One thing I have discovered is guys into underwear tend to be awesome guys. Have you made any friends that you may not have met otherwise?
I do love attending underwear parties or when bars host jock strap nights. It seems like a good equalizer and there like a nice brotherhood once everyone gets comfortable. I’ve met tons great like minded guys at in such environments.
Photo by @cteelphoto
What is your favorite color of Underwear?
Hmm…Blue or Black…or Black & Blue.
Lastly, What is your favorite social media to post on? And what is your name on there?
I guess I’d have to say Instagram, though when I first downloaded it (years ago) I thought it was just for photo editing, I didn’t realize it was for photo sharing. Why I thought a dick pic needed a filter I’ll never know, but I filtered it (probably to send to someone on Scruff) not realizing it was posting publicly for everyone to see. This was about 8 or 9 years ago—before they were such censoring vigilantes because that dick pic stayed up there for over a week. I had no idea it was there until a friend of mine from Italy called, (she never calls, so when she did I knew something was up), to say “you know you have your dick posted up on instagram, right?” Haha maybe that was my initial boost of popularity Anyway I immoderately deleted it—whoops! There my handle is @TheGayGaston but I prefer Patreon.com/TheGayGaston at least on Patreon I can post what I want without fear off having it reported or taken down, I can run polls, post longer videos etc.
How did you discover your love of underwear, swim briefs, spandex and gear ?
My love of underwear goes back to the 90s when I accidentally came across this Tv show called The bikini open ( it’s on YouTube I recently rewatched and relived that time) where as soon as I saw the preview, I was hooked. There were females models wearing fluorescent bikinis/tiny G string Bikini with that 90s Glow which looked extremely hot( please don’t ask me how many times a day I pleasured myself watching that in those days) By the end of that show, I was completely smitten with underwear. Also, show had a segment with men in their sexy undies such as a thong and I remember succinctly I was so taken back at first seeing men in such revealing undies( a guy was in a purple g string) but by the end of that first episode1,I knew I had a thing for undies in my heart and I couldn’t stop watching that every time it came on.
What are your favorite styles to wear?
I love sports briefs/ Tanga briefs ( jockey made these white tanga/sports bikini which I can’t find anywhere now)as they provide support to the package and cover the behind but leaves room for the leg to do all this squats and stretches. Perfect for the Gym workouts.
I love jockstrap again for the purpose of wearing at the gym as it provides a lot of free movement and room to move freely. Besides I find myself feel sexy in one.-
I now own 4 thongs purely as suggested by my friends on Instagram still getting used to them.- for every day use, I wear trunks and mostly boxers at night time in bed.
Why did you first start posting pics in underwear?
Honestly speaking, I never really spoke about my love for underwear purely for the fear of being taken as a joke or even be made fun of so I thought to find a platform to express my desire and love for undies and find like-minded people with similar taste and appreciation for sexy jocks. Boy did I lucky, I have now made quite a few friends though Instagram( I like to think so) and even considering hanging out with them once I get more comfortable. (sadly, most of them are in the US only about 15000 miles away)
If you have a partner/husband/wife are the supportive of you sharing your love of underwear?
I did have a girlfriend in the past but I could never introduce that to our relationship purely due to fear of rejection which I plan to work on in like-minded future when I have a new relationship. I am actively looking for a Guy friend AKA my bro with taste for undies so I could finally meet and go shopping together for undies with him.
Do your friends know about your IG and live if undies?
No, this has been my own sort of thing so none of my friend know about it.
What have been some of the positive things that have happened since you started posting? Did you have any negative experiences?-
I have been extremely fortunate to have found and connected with such great, kind hearted , supporting and loving group of people through Instagram. The feedback regarding my body and choice of undies has been positive to the point sometimes I feel I don’t deserve as compared to all the stunning models out there, I am just average bloke trying to make some friends and share common posts of me in undies with my average body.( the only 6 pack is own is the one in the fridge 6 pack of cheese and crackers)
No matter the body type there are always people who will criticize you that you’re too big, too small, too young, too old, how do you deal with those?
I always welcome constructive criticism and always happy to take on feedback like-minded, whether positive or neutral in a sporting manner. So far, I have been fortunate enough not to have experienced such unkind behavior. In fact, there are times when I hate my body or unhappy about body images, feedback from fellow Instagram friends made me feel great for which I am always grateful.
One thing I have discovered is guys into underwear tend to be awesome guys. Have you made any friends that you may not have met otherwise?
bsolutely, I am happy that I made a decision to create this profile due to which I have connected with some of the most amazing guys who have been supportive and loving through this journey.
What is your favorite color of Underwear?
I love Red pair of undies.
Lastly, What is your favorite social media to post on? And what is your name on there?
How did you discover your love of underwear, swim briefs, spandex andgear ?
I’m Australian, so as a kid I grew up wearing speedos! Hahaha. Of course I went through my awkward teenage years of trying to cover up. It was as a young adult that I started to discover how sexy a great pair of underwear made me feel. I saw sexy muscular men in trunks and speedos and wanted to be like them. So I started training hard and wearing speedos again. I branched out and started wearing briefs again too and eventually got into jockstraps too. I love having my ass out. Hahaha. As I got more and more into my gym training, I started to get into spandex too. I love wearing some tight fitting leggings or lycra shorts at the gym. Shows off the hard work and turns heads 😉
What are your favorite styles to wear?
I used to only wear trunks, but now I love a sexy pair of briefs. My favourites would have to be a jockstrap though. They are so sexy!
Why did you first start posting pics in underwear?
Initially I wanted to join the community of muscle guys on instagram, showing off their gym progress, but then I really started to enjoy showing off and being a little bit exhibitionist 😉
If you have a partner/husband/wife are the supportive of you sharing your love of underwear?
I don’t have one, but my future partner will need to be supportive! Hahaha
Do yur friends know about your IG and live if undies?
If they didn’t before, they found out very quickly from my IG! ;P
What have been some of the positive things that have happened since you started posting? Did you have any negative experiences?
Of course there have been some negative people commenting, but on the whole the IG community have been super supportive! I love the feedback and the support. I try to return it when I can. I think IG should be about support, not tearing each other down.
No matter the body type there are always people who will criticize you that you’re too big, too small, too young, too old, how do you deal with those?
I try to ignore it. I usually delete those comments, because I don’t want to be reminded of that negativity whenever I’m online. I don’t think my true supporters want to see that either. Let’s keep it positive guys!
One thing I have discovered is guys into underwear tend to be awesome guys. Have you made any friends that you may not have met otherwise?
I have connected with great guys online and some of them I’ve even met in real life and we’ve become good friends! I LOVE that about IG. Connecting like mind people from around the world.
what is your favorite color of Underwear?
Ooo. I have too many favourites. I have a blue jockstrap from KICK Sagat that I love. Maybe blue then?
Lastly, What is your favorite social media to post on? And what is your name on there?
At the moment I love IG (@the.franky.fox) even though it’s getting harder with censorship. Perhaps it’s time to move my content to Twitter (@thefrankyfox)
How did you discover your
love of underwear, swim briefs, spandex and gear ?
Like most underwear enthusiasts it started at a young age. I was
one of those curious young boys that would search for the colored flyers in the
Sunday newspaper and look up the men’s underwear ads. When we would go shopping
at department stores, I would separate from my mom and head to the men’s
underwear section where I would marvel at all the boxes of underwear.
My mother was always fashionable, so she would buy me stylish
underwear. I wore mostly briefs and when I was 14, I started wearing
lowrise bikini briefs. Since I was a dancer, I’d also have to wear thongs under
my tight dance pants and tights.
It wasn’t until I was 18 when I had my first credit card that my
underwear collection grew exponentially because I began ordering underwear like
crazy! Most of my purchase were from Undergear.com. Since I was making my own
purchases I was able to order skimpier styles.
What are you favorite
styles to wear?
I like most styles of underwear, but don’t think I necessarily have
a favorite. I wear trunks when I want comfort and when going to bed. I wear
briefs when I want more support and freedom in the legs. I wear jockstraps in
the summer when it’s warmer or when going out on dates. I wear thongs when I
want to feel a little more sexy.
Why did you first start
posting pics in underwear?
I started posting pics in underwear a little over 5 years ago
because I figured why not share my collection and passion for underwear with
others. I was also starting to feel more confident with my body and how I
looked in my underwear. It gave me an outlet to express myself in a different
way.
If you have a
partner/husband/wife are the supportive of you sharing your love of underwear?
Currently single and ready to mingle!
Do you friends know about
your IG and love if undies?
Although I’m private about my IG, I do have friends and family that
know about my love for undies. Usually when I’m out shopping with friends I’m
always buying underwear. If I’m making purchases online I ask for their
opinion.
What have been some of the
positive things that have happened since you started posting ? Did you have any
negative experiences?
The most positive thing would be all the amazing friendships I have
made. I not only admire them for sharing the same passion for men’s underwear,
but for the encouragement and for helping me learn to embrace and love my body.
I don’t have any negative experiences worth sharing.
No matter the body type
there are always people who will criticize you that you’re too big, too small,
too young, too old, how do you deal with those?
This question has me reflecting on how I have been lucky to not
receive any negative criticism. Honestly the only person who criticizes me
constantly is myself. I have always been insecure about being on the small side
(5’4”, 127lbs) but since posting so many people have taught me to embrace it.
One thing I have discovered
is guys into underwear tend to be awesome guys. Have you made any friends that
you may not have met otherwise?
Yes, we ARE awesome! lol I have definitely built some amazing
friendships = that I would not have made otherwise. I am very thankful for the
friendships I have made and hope they will continue for a very long time.
what is your favorite color
of Underwear?
I’m not sure if I have a favorite color of underwear. I tend to buy
a lot of navy, so maybe that’s my color. I also like black but sometimes I feel
like wearing/buying bright happy colors.
Lastly, What is your
favorite social media to post on? And what is your name on there?
How did you discover your love of underwear, swim briefs, spandex and gear ?
I’ve always had a major undies fetish since I can remember. Definitely well before high school. I remember as a kid I used to grab the advertisements from the Sunday paper for each of the major department stores and bring them up to my room so I could check out the guys in their underwear. I didn’t find it of sexual nature at the time, but more of just a general interest for all the different style underwear. It was like looking at cars, which is another passion of mine. In addition to grabbing the ads from the paper, I used to make the effort to sneak away from my Mom while shopping and walk through the men’s underwear section of the department stores to check things out. I thoroughly enjoyed seeing all the different brands and styles and patterns and colors. It was my candy store!
As I got older and entered high school (all male private catholic HS BTW), I can remember being literally the only 14 year old wearing Calvin Klein boxer-briefs. Everyone else wore boxers and one guy wore briefs. I guess I was a trend setter since boxerbriefs weren’t a popular choice yet?! lol. But I was adamant about having good underwear even as as kid. I used to work pretty hard and would spend some of my cash on designer boxer-briefs. It wasn’t until my college years that I started to branch out and try new styles like bikinis and thongs, etc.
What are you favorite styles to wear? (Briefs, bikini thong jock boxer briefs, trunks and why do you prefer them)
I wear it all, although trunks are probably my least favorite on me because the legs tend to ride up so much that I may as well have just worn briefs. So that can be annoying. But if I had to choose, I’d probably say my favorite style is briefs and my wife’s favorite is probably a jockstrap.
My wife is usually the one to pick out my underwear each morning, which is a lot of fun for me. I’m usually in the shower when she’s rummaging through my underwear drawers finding the perfect pair for me to wear that day and I get so excited wondering what she’s picked out!
I feel so badly when I hear from other guys who are forced to wear boxers or boxerbriefs or trunks because their significant other thinks that’s what a man should wear. Like what is that?! Because I choose to also wear briefs or jocks or thongs in addition to those other styles that makes me less of a man?
It’s not ok to force your preferences onto someone. This isn’t to say it’s not ok to have a preference of what your man wears. Of course that’s ok! I prefer my wife to wear thongs but that doesn’t mean it’s ok for me to force her to wear them. Lucky for me that’s all she wears!
So I love that my wife knows my underwear preference is my choice and she supports my decisions of whatever I want to wear.
Why did you first start posting pics in underwear?
It was 5+ years ago and I just started to get curious about these feelings I was having about seeing guys in their underwear. I was unsure still at the time if my attraction was the underwear or the guy wearing the underwear. Anyway, I did a Google search for something along the lines of “guys in briefs.” One of the search results was a link to some guys Tumblr page. I had never heard of Tumblr before. Back then you could view someone’s Tumblr page, and if the page owner allowed, ask anon questions without actually having a Tumblr page yourself. I was hooked. This guy was such a stud in his undies and his bulge was unbelievable. Still one of the best bulges on Tumblr.
Long story short, after a few anon questions submittted, I decided to create my own Tumblr page so I could follow him. We connected and he asked to see me in my undies. My heart was beating so fast. I’d never done anything like this before! So I ran upstairs, pulled my shorts down, and snapped a couple quick photos in the mirror of me in my light blue 2xist Colour briefs. I still have those briefs for sentimental reasons.
The pics were terrible! I didn’t clean the mirror and I had no idea how to take an undies selfie, but non the less, I sent it off to him. He enjoyed what he saw enough to take the time to convince me to start posting my own pics on my page. And so I did and that was the start of my first Tumblr page.
That’s how I first started, but it’s not the reason why I post now. I truly enjoy it. My whole reason for posting is not to gain attention, but to help educate men (and even women) that there are better undies choices to be made. I suppose this is why my pictures/posts are focused on the undies and not my body. It’s not about my body. It’s all about the undies for me.
If you have a partner/husband/wife are the supportive of you sharing your love of underwear? (Leave blank if you don’t have one)
My wife is extremely supportive of my love for underwear. When I had my initial Tumblr page, I told her about it and she followed it til the day I shut it down. It was really scary to tell/show her my page but she was extremely supportive and became a bit of undies addict herself. Years later I came back to Tumblr and now IG under my new name and I haven’t told her about either because I finally admitted to myself that I’m bicurious and I’m just not ready to share that with her. I don’t fully understand my curiosity yet, so how can I explain it to her if I don’t fully understand it myself?
This is why I have such guilt, sometimes, about having my IG page. My wife and I don’t have secrets. We’ve been together for 20 years, since high school, and we know everything about each other except this one thing that I’ve discovered about myself. And it’s a big thing. So the guilt gets to me, a lot. But I know I need this outlet to help explore and express that other side of myself. Some would say it’s cheating, but I honestly don’t think it is. I have no intention of ever being physical with a man regardless how strong the urge and desire may be at times because I love my wife and the life we’ve built over the past 20 years more than words could express and my curiosity isn’t worth breaking that up. So I’ll probably always stay curious since I’ve never done anything with a man, and that’s ok. It’s often better to let fantasies remain fantasies because they can sometimes be such a let down when they become reality.
Do you friends know about your IG and love of undies?
Besides the friends that I’ve made through this underwear community, no. It’s not really something that comes up in conversation with my friends.
What have been some of the positive things that have happened since you started posting ? Did you have any negative experiences?
I’ve met some really amazing people, all of which have had a part in some fashion in helping me realize my bicuriosity and I’m thankful for that, despite being very confusing for me. Slowly I’m accepting myself for who I am and I don’t think I’d ever be here in my life without having been on Tumblr or IG.
Some of these guys have become true friends in real life and know my identity and follow my personal social media pages. I’m thankful for those friendships we’ve developed throughout the years.
With positive experiences there are sometimes negative experiences. It’s a part of life. Currently I’m taking a break from IG. I needed time to reset and get my head in a good place after an experience I had. My biggest character flaw is that I’m a people pleaser. And when I sense someone doesn’t like me all of a sudden it really messes with my head because all I want to do is make others happy. It’s who I am.
There’s this guy on IG I was introduced to by a mutual friend. He seemed like an awesome guy and I felt we hit it off. We’d talk a lot, about anything, and shared a lot of heartfelt moments about our personal lives. But something happened and I don’t know what. He was chatting with me less and less. Meanwhile he was constantly chatting with another mutual friend and it seemed as though their friendship picked up where ours left off. Don’t get me wrong. I’m happy they chat a lot and are building a friendship, but yes it’s only natural for me to wonder what’s wrong with me. Why doesn’t he like me?
Long story short. One of the last conversations we had was in a group chat with the mutual friend that introduced us. This new friend wanted to share nudes and sent one. And our mutual friend sent one. And I replied “sluts” and immediately said I was kidding. We’ve joked like that before. He’s called me a bish. But I guess it didn’t sit well. Anyway after I said I was kidding I apologized and said I don’t have any nudes to share that they haven’t seen already, which is the truth. I’ve got a wife and two small kids at home. I can barely find the time to snap a couple undies selfies. But he wasn’t having it and said he deleted his pic because he’s not sharing if we all can’t share.
I felt badly. Really really badly. But the more I thought about it, why should I feel badly? I asked our mutual friend what just happened and he said that the friend feels that if he sends a nude he should get one back. I didn’t understand this. Sure, if I asked for a nude and didn’t reciprocate, then shame on me. But it was his idea and he sent a nude on his own accord and got upset when I didn’t reciprocate. To me that’s borderline bullying.
I wasn’t going to share this story because I know it doesn’t make me look good saying I’ve shared nudes. Rest assured it is not often that I have shared nudes. Hardly ever, in fact. But I tell this story because I want to remind people their actions can really hurt someone, especially if the person feels slightly bullied. It’s not ok. It’s not ok I feel horrible about this and I didn’t do anything wrong. It’s not ok that it’s messed with my head so much that I felt I had to step away from my IG. The one place I felt like I could be myself and be accepted for who I am as a straight married bicurious guy with a major undies fetish.
Anyway. I really hope he and I can start to build a friendship again. I really like him despite what occurred. He’s friends with two of my closest friends on IG and it would be amazing if we all could build friendships together.
No matter the body type there are always people who will criticize you that you’re too big, too small, too young, too old, how do you deal with those?
I’d like to say I ignore them, but it’s difficult. I can’t please everyone, but I can be proud of who I am and control my actions. For this reason you will never hear a bad word out of my mouth regarding how someone else looks in their undies. I always want to be supportive.
I love it when I see someone who has the confidence to post a pic of themself in their favorite undies. Confidence is probably the sexiest character trait anyone could possess. We all come in different shapes and sizes. Just accept it and embrace it! Be confident in your own body. And if you’re not, then take the steps to change what you don’t like about yourself. But don’t base your decisions of not posting undies selfies on what you think others may think. Just because someone is super fit doesn’t mean they don’t love seeing a confident guy who might not be in the same shape as them post a pic of him sporting his favorite undies. That’s your perception, not theirs. Love yourself and share with the world what makes you happy!
Same goes for the guy that wants to try out new styles of underwear but is worried about being labeled. This is why I don’t like stereotypes. As far as I’m aware, the style or color underwear someone chooses to wear doesn’t dictate their sexual orientation or anything else about them. Speaking as a married straight (possibly bi) man, yes I agree I’m in the minority of men who wear jocks and thongs and briefs of all colors and materials. Until society stops labeling and making assumptions about people based on materialistic things like underwear choices, we will not make progress of moving toward a loving kindhearted world that’s unbiased and open minded. I know men, both straight and gay, who are apprehensive of trying different style underwear because they’re afraid of being labeled or questioned by society. They’re worried that their wife or girlfriend will think they’re gay because they’re wearing a thong they find sexy and comfortable. They’re worried that the guy they’re crushing on will think they’re only interested in bottoming because they’re wearing a jockstrap they really like. When does it end? When will we understand that our underwear choices don’t dictate our sexual orientation! When will we stop preventing the guy next to us from making amazing underwear choices because they’re afraid of being labeled or their identity questioned? THIS is why men’s underwear fashion has slowly evolved because they’re afraid to make the choice they actually desire. They’re afraid to take that chance and try something new. I’m here to tell men, regardless of sexual orientation, race, relationship status, fat, skinny, fit, old and whatever else that there’s better underwear choices to be made and I’ll happily support them!
One thing I have discovered is guys into underwear tend to be awesome guys. Have you made any friends that you may not have met otherwise?
I can’t agree with you more! I’ve met some amazing guys throughout the years, one of which is you Tim. You’ve built a great undies community here and helped me to accept me for who I am and realize it’s OK to be me.
I’d say there’s 8 guys that I’d definitely consider as true friends and not just cool guys I know from Tumblr or IG. These are the guys that I’ve shared some of my personal life with be it pics of my face or my kids or my wife or my home or other aspects of my personal life. And in a couple instances we’ve even connected on our personal social media pages and have even texted with each other. I am forever grateful to these amazing guys and the friendships we’ve built. They all have made me a better man and more comfortable in my own skin.
What is your favorite color of Underwear?
White. There’s something so sexy about white underwear to me. I don’t necessarily mean tighty whities, but a white thong or a white pair of hip briefs. It’s just so pure and downright sexy. Woof.
Lastly, What is your favorite social media to post on? And what is your name on there?
