One of the biggest questions we hear from listeners is:
“When do I tell someone I’m into underwear?”
Whether your passion is briefs, bikinis, thongs, jocks, lingerie, spandex, or another fetish, talking about it with a partner can feel intimidating. Should you bring it up on the first date? Wait until you’re in a relationship? What if you’ve been together for years and have never said anything?
This week, UNB Tim sits down with clinical sexologist and sex therapist Dr. Ty to answer those questions and many more.
Together they explore how to communicate openly about kinks, why honesty builds stronger relationships, and why shame has no place in healthy sexuality.
This conversation isn’t just about underwear—it’s about authenticity, communication, and finding partners who accept you for who you really are.
In This Episode
Why the timing of sharing your kink depends on how important it is to your sexuality
The difference between a casual interest, a fetish, and a primary kink
Why honesty early in dating can actually save relationships
How hiding a major kink can unintentionally feel like a “bait and switch”
The “Share-Check” method for introducing fantasies and kinks gradually
Ways to test the waters before having a deeper conversation
Why trying new things together can strengthen long-term relationships
How couples discover new turn-ons through curiosity and communication
Why underwear is often much less “extreme” than people imagine
Breaking down shame around kinks and sexual interests
The importance of consent, communication, and mutual respect
Why you don’t owe everyone an explanation of your sexuality
Finding community if you feel like you’re the only one
Key Takeaways
Honest communication builds healthier relationships.
Your partner can’t support something they don’t know about.
Curiosity is healthier than shame.
Not every partner will share your kink—and that’s okay.
Being authentic helps you find people who truly accept you.
There is no “right” kink as long as it’s safe, consensual, and legal.
You are far from alone.
About Our Guest
Dr. Ty is a clinical sexologist and licensed sex therapist who helps individuals and couples navigate relationships, communication, intimacy, and sexuality without shame.
One of the favorite swimwear styles from 2EROS is the V10 Core Swim Brief. This is what 2EROS has to say about this classic line, “The iconic Core swimwear is a timeless classic that focuses on emphasizing your body’s assets..Clean, vibrant colors designed to complement your style and surroundings.” This year they have Rust Orange and Cool Mint. Find these and more at the 2EROS website.
We are well into summer, and it’s time to buy more swimwear! I think every guy should get three new pairs of swimwear a year. And if you are looking for thongs, check out the Hunk Menswear Low Tide swim thong. It comes in a few colors, but it’s selling fast. Check them out for more swim briefs and undies as well.
Who’s ready to spice up your underwear drawer? The Body Aware Glow jock is one of those pairs that you want to put on and show the world your undies for the day. This jock brief looks like a bikini from the front but a jock in the back. The green color is one I LOVE. Check out the entire collection.
N2N Bodywear is killing it lately with the bold neon colors. I bought the Rebel shorts and the throwback to the 80s is amazing. Now, they have released a line of underwear in the same bold colors. One I had to profile is the South Beach Jock, If you are a jock fan or just a fan of bold colors, this jock is for you. Comes in two colos and would be perfect for an underwear night or under mesh shorts.
Candyman just dropped a new collection and it’s at the UNB Store. Candyman is known for their unique take on men’s underwear, not afraid to embrace the feminine side of underwear. The new collection is less lace but more bold bright colors. It’s a fun collection and I think many of you will love the thongs. Check out the collection.
For over 40 years, Skinzwear has been creating some of the boldest, sexiest, and most customizable swimwear and underwear in the world. When founder Paul Polgar announced he was selling the company, loyal customers wondered what would happen next.
This week, Tim sits down with Tatjana, the new owner of Skinzwear, to hear the incredible story of how she unexpectedly became the steward of one of the most beloved names in men’s swimwear.
From a chance meeting over a sewing machine to owning the company just a few years later, Tatjana shares why keeping Skinzwear’s identity, quality, and creativity alive was always the priority.
They also discuss:
The surprising story behind buying Skinzwear
Why customers initially panicked after the ownership change
How Skinzwear celebrates 40 years in business
Why every swimsuit is still made in-house in Florida
The importance of listening to customer feedback
How new styles are developed in days instead of months
The growing popularity of men’s one-piece swimsuits
Matching swimwear for couples
Bold prints, vibrant colors, and exclusive fabrics
Why quality craftsmanship still matters
Behind-the-scenes look at designing custom swimwear
Upcoming sportswear, singlets, wrestling suits, bike shorts, crop tops, and more
Why skimpy swimwear continues to grow in popularity
Tatjana also gives listeners a preview of what’s coming next, including new exclusive prints, expanded athletic collections, and even more customer-inspired designs.
If you’ve ever wondered what makes Skinzwear different—or you’re looking for your next favorite swimsuit—this episode is packed with stories you’ll love.
Episode Highlights
Celebrating 40 years of Skinzwear
How Tatjana became the new owner
Why keeping manufacturing in-house matters
Designing custom swimwear from customer ideas
Exclusive prints, premium fabrics, and bold colors
The rise of men’s one-piece swimsuits
Future plans for sportswear, singlets, and athletic gear
Why confidence starts with wearing what you love
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Discover one of the largest selections of men’s bikinis, thongs, G-strings, swim briefs, one-piece swimsuits, sportswear, and custom-made swimwear—all proudly manufactured in-house in Florida.
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Listen to Our Other Podcasts
Brief Talk
https://pod.link/310512556
Conversations about men’s underwear, swimwear, body image, confidence, and the people helping redefine masculinity.
Brief Talk After Dark
https://pod.link/1727623284
More personal, candid, and unfiltered conversations exploring sexuality, relationships, kink, and everything we can’t always fit into the main show.
Stretching the Truth
https://pod.link/1852282574
The podcast dedicated to the world of spandex, singlets, cycling gear, compression wear, zentai, and everything stretchy. Hosted by UNB Tim with guests from around the world who share why they love wearing Lycra.
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Your support helps us continue sharing conversations that celebrate confidence, self-expression, and the communities built around underwear, swimwear, and body positivity.
Thanks for listening, and we’ll see you next time on Brief Talk!
When I remember the era of spandex, that was the late 80’s and early 90’s. Spandex for men was fun and bold. There was no hiding back in the day. You wore spandex shorts or tights in bold colors and prints. I think part of the thrill was gaining the attention. I know many of you missed those days entirely, but N2N Bodywear has released these amazing shorts, aka Jammers.
When I saw them, I knew I MUST HAVE THEM, and yes, I bought the pink and blue pairs, the colors just pop and give you that retro 80’s vibe that I loved so much. These are swimsuits, but they can also be used as shorts and for the gym. If this is a must-have for you, go check out the Rebel Jammer!
One of the things I’ve always believed is that no one should have to enjoy their passions alone.
Whether it’s underwear, swimwear, thongs, speedos, singlets, skinsuits, or any other type of gear, finding other people who understand why you love it can be life-changing. That’s one reason I was excited to sit down with Simon, the owner and administrator of Spandex Party, on the latest episode of Stretching the Truth.
For those who may not know, Spandex Party has become one of the largest online communities for guys who love spandex, lycra, wrestling gear, cycling kits, swimwear, skinsuits, and just about every form of stretchy gear imaginable. What started as a niche website has evolved into a thriving international community connecting people from around the world.
Saving a Community
One of the most interesting things Simon shared was how close Spandex Party came to disappearing.
Several years ago, the site’s previous owner was facing challenges that made continuing the platform difficult. Rather than letting the community vanish, Simon stepped in and took over management of the site. Since then, he’s worked to modernize the platform, improve the user experience, and keep the community growing.
As someone who has spent years running Underwear News Briefs and producing podcasts, I understand just how much work goes into maintaining a niche community. Most people only see the finished product. They don’t see the countless hours spent behind the scenes making sure everything continues to run smoothly.
More Than Just Photos
What has always impressed me about Spandex Party is that it’s more than just a place to post pictures.
Yes, you’ll find incredible gear. You’ll discover amazing singlets, skinsuits, cycling kits, speedos, thongs, and tights. You’ll probably find several items that immediately make you want to open your wallet.
But the real value comes from the people.
Throughout our conversation, Simon shared stories about members who have built lasting friendships through the platform. Some have even met their partners through Spandex Party. Those kinds of connections show the true value of a community.
It’s not just about what you’re wearing.
It’s about finding people who understand why you love wearing it.
The Rise of Real-World Connections
One of the themes that came up repeatedly during our conversation was the growing desire for offline connections.
For years, many gear enthusiasts primarily interacted online. Today, more people want to meet in person, attend events, travel together, and build friendships beyond the screen.
We talked about events like Folsom Berlin, Tightstorm, Thongers Weekend, and other gatherings where people can meet others who share their interests.
I see this trend continuing to grow.
In fact, one of the goals of my Free the Bulge initiative is to eventually organize travel experiences where like-minded guys can attend events, visit beaches, explore cities, and simply enjoy being themselves without judgment.
Community becomes even stronger when online friendships become real-world friendships.
Why Spandex Is Growing Again
Another fascinating topic was the resurgence of spandex itself.
Many of us remember the 1980s and early 1990s when spandex seemed to be everywhere. Then it faded from mainstream visibility for years.
Today, we’re seeing a resurgence.
Cycling gear is more popular than ever. Wrestling singlets continue to attract fans. Compression gear has become mainstream. Club culture has embraced bodysuits and skinsuits. Athletic brands are introducing more form-fitting apparel.
Most importantly, people are becoming more confident about expressing themselves.
The stigma around wearing tight gear isn’t disappearing overnight, but more people are realizing that they should wear what makes them feel comfortable, confident, and authentic.
The Future of Spandex Party
The future looks bright for Spandex Party.
Simon discussed plans for expanded community features, improved communication tools, more real-world events, and the possibility of future app functionality that could make it even easier for members to stay connected.
He has also launched the Spandex Party Shop, featuring original gear designed specifically for the community. The wrestling singlets and skinsuits have already generated a lot of excitement, and additional styles are currently in development.
Knowing Simon, I expect we’ll continue seeing new ideas, new events, and new opportunities for people to connect.
Why Communities Matter
One thing I’ve learned through Underwear News Briefs, Brief Talk Podcast, and now Stretching the Truth is that people need spaces where they can be themselves.
For some people, that’s underwear.
For others, it’s swimwear.
For many of us listening to Stretching the Truth, it’s spandex.
Whatever your passion happens to be, finding others who share that passion can make a tremendous difference in your life.
Communities like Spandex Party remind us that we’re not alone.
And sometimes that’s exactly what people need.
Listen to the Full Episode
Be sure to check out my full conversation with Simon on Stretching the Truth. We discuss the history of Spandex Party, the future of the community, gear, events, travel, and why the world of spandex continues to grow.
If you’re not already a member of Spandex Party, I highly recommend checking it out. You may discover some amazing gear, make a few new friends, and become part of one of the most welcoming communities in the world of spandex.
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In this episode of the Brief Talk Podcast, UNB Tim sits down with fellow underwear enthusiast and Instagram creator Tim from Fun2WearThongs for a candid conversation about confidence, men’s underwear, social media, and why more guys should feel comfortable wearing what they love.
With two Tims on the mic, the discussion quickly moves beyond just underwear and into larger conversations about self-expression, masculinity, relationships, body confidence, and the challenges men face when breaking outside traditional expectations.
In This Episode
How Tim started his Fun2WearThongs Instagram account
Why he began reviewing and showcasing thongs online
The confidence boost that comes from wearing underwear you love
Comfort, function, and style: what makes a great thong
Favorite brands including Krakatoa, MeUndies, Cocksox, Hunk, and Real Men Apparel
Why jockstraps still intimidate him
Working out in thongs and body confidence
Lace underwear, masculinity, and breaking stereotypes
The double standards men face on social media
Why Instagram continues to target male underwear content
UNB Tim introduces the “Free the Bulge” initiative
How straight, bi, and gay men experience underwear culture differently
Discussing men’s underwear with partners and spouses
Why communication is important in relationships
Social media, thirst traps, and authenticity
Building confidence through self-expression
The importance of creating a welcoming underwear community
Key Takeaways
Both Tims agree that underwear is far more than just clothing. For many men, it represents confidence, self-expression, comfort, and a way to feel like the best version of themselves.
The conversation also highlights the continuing stigma many men face when wearing thongs, lace, jocks, or other non-traditional styles, particularly among straight and bi men who often face additional scrutiny from partners, friends, and society.
Whether you’re a longtime thong wearer or simply curious about trying something new, this episode encourages listeners to wear what makes them feel good and stop worrying so much about what others think.
Connect with Our Guest
Instagram:
@fun2wearthongs
Listen to Our Other Shows
Brief Talk
Conversations about men’s underwear, swimwear, confidence, body image, and self-expression.
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Brief Talk After Dark
The more candid and unfiltered side of Brief Talk featuring discussions on relationships, sexuality, kink, and personal experiences.
https://pod.link/1727623284
Stretching the Truth
A podcast dedicated to the world of spandex, lycra, singlets, cycling gear, compression wear, and the people who love wearing it.
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Final Thought
Confidence doesn’t come from what other people think about what you’re wearing. It comes from wearing what makes you feel comfortable, sexy, and authentically yourself.
I have nothing better to say than what N2N Bodywear said on their site about the Classic Thong.
One last ditch effort to hold onto the fabulous memory of sun kissed beaches, sparking pools and scandalous pool parties. Grab one of these CLASSIC beauties now before spring rolls around and you’re like “I should have gotten one of those cute colorful thongs while I had the chance…now I’m stuck with that piece of crap from Temu!”
Jeffrey Scott (aka Jeffrey Wright) joins UNB Tim for a wide-ranging conversation about spandex, tights, masculinity, confidence, entrepreneurship, and building one of the most influential men’s tights brands of the last decade. From launching a business with just $600 and a sewing machine to encouraging thousands of men to embrace who they are, Jeffrey shares his journey, lessons learned, and why being yourself is always worth it.
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In This Episode
How Jeffrey became known as one of the original “tights guys” online
Growing up in the 80s and discovering a love of spandex and leggings
Starting a business with only $600 and a dream
Learning to sew and building a brand from scratch
The challenges of early social media marketing
Why fabric matters more than most people realize
Designing tights specifically for men’s bodies
The evolution of men’s leggings and athletic wear
Building friendships and community through a niche passion
Straight, gay, and bi men finding common ground through underwear and tights
Masculinity, confidence, and self-expression
The impact of religion, family, and personal growth
Vintage spandex, singlets, and iconic athletic gear
Why underwear, cups, and athletic gear can be art
The realities of running a small apparel business
The future of self-expression in men’s fashion
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Memorable Quotes
“Part of what I wanted to do was tell guys that it’s okay to be themselves and feel sexy every day.”
“I never felt like I needed to hide in my leggings.”
“Masculinity became a constantly moving bar of unattainability.”
“Once you erase the bars of masculinity and femininity, you can just be yourself.”
“Everybody is on a journey.”
“Spandex is like wearing a hug.”
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Featured Topics
Starting a Brand from Nothing
Jeffrey shares how he launched his company in 2014 with only $200 a month for three months, handling everything himself—from website design and accounting to sewing and fulfillment.
The Power of Community
One of the biggest surprises wasn’t selling tights—it was meeting incredible people from all walks of life and building lasting friendships through a shared love of self-expression.
Masculinity and Authenticity
The conversation explores how society defines masculinity, why those definitions are constantly changing, and why confidence comes from being yourself rather than chasing someone else’s expectations.
Gear as Art
UNB Tim and Jeffrey discuss why vintage underwear, athletic cups, singlets, tights, and spandex deserve to be preserved and celebrated as cultural artifacts and personal history.
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Closing Thoughts
Jeffrey’s story is about much more than tights. It’s about confidence, authenticity, community, and learning to stop hiding the things that make you happy. Whether you’re into spandex, underwear, fitness gear, or simply being yourself, this conversation is a reminder that the journey is always worth it.
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One of the things I love most about doing podcasts is hearing how different people arrive at the same destination.
On the latest episode of Stretching the Truth, I sat down with Commo from Australia, and what struck me most wasn’t the gear he loves. It was how different his journey was from mine, yet how many of the same conclusions we reached.
Many people discover spandex, Lycra, wetsuits, or other gear through a kink or fetish. Others find it through sports, fitness, swimming, cycling, surfing, or competition. While the starting points may be different, many of us eventually arrive at the same place: realizing that what we wear can be a powerful form of self-expression.
For Commo, that journey started with swimming.
Growing up in Australia, Speedos weren’t some exotic piece of gear. They were simply what swimmers wore. As he moved into competitive swimming, surfing, and other outdoor sports, performance gear became a normal part of everyday life. The gear wasn’t initially about kink. It was about function. Yet something about the material kept drawing him back.
Many of us can relate to that feeling. There’s something about spandex that is hard to explain to people who don’t get it. The fit. The compression. The sensation of wearing it. The confidence it can create. It’s one of those things that often doesn’t make sense until you experience it yourself.
What I found especially interesting was how Commo approaches gear today.
While many people separate gear into “sport” and “kink” categories, he embraces the practical side of it. Running tights, cycling kits, wetsuits, skinsuits, and compression gear aren’t just things he collects. They’re things he uses.
That reminded me of something I talk about often. One of my goals with both Stretching the Truth and Free the Bulge is encouraging people to wear what they love. If you enjoy tights, wear them. If you love swim briefs, wear them. If you prefer singlets, wrestling gear, cycling kits, or compression wear, don’t let other people’s expectations dictate your choices.
Too many men spend years worrying about what other people might think. The reality is that most people are far less concerned about what you’re wearing than you imagine. We build these scenarios in our heads where everyone is staring, judging, or criticizing us. In reality, most people are busy dealing with their own lives. That doesn’t mean confidence comes easily. It takes time.
I still remember buying my first wrestling singlet. At the time, it felt like a huge deal. Looking back now, it seems almost funny, but at the time it represented something important. It was a step toward accepting a part of myself that I had spent years trying to understand.
That’s why conversations like this matter. They remind us that there isn’t one correct path into gear culture. Some people arrive through sports. Some arrive through kink. Some arrive through fashion. Some simply discover that they feel better wearing certain things. All of those paths are valid.
But perhaps the biggest takeaway from our conversation wasn’t about gear at all. It was about community. Over the years, I’ve become increasingly convinced that the future of our community depends on moving beyond simply admiring each other’s gear. Don’t get me wrong. We all appreciate a great photo. But if that’s where the interaction ends, we’re missing something important.
Behind every profile is a real person. A person with a career. A family. A story. Interests beyond gear. Dreams, challenges, successes, and struggles. The strongest communities aren’t built on gear alone. They’re built on relationships. They’re built on conversations that go beyond “Nice suit” or “Great photo.” They’re built when we ask questions. When we share experiences. When we support each other. When we get to know the person behind the gear.
Some of the best friendships I’ve made over the years started because of underwear, spandex, swimwear, or gear. Today, many of those friendships have evolved far beyond those shared interests.
That’s where real community happens. The gear might bring us together. But the people are what make us stay. As the Stretching the Truth community continues to grow, that’s something I hope we never lose sight of. Wear what you love. Be authentic. Don’t apologize for your interests. And most importantly, take the time to get to know the people behind the gear. You never know where a simple conversation might lead.
What About You?
How did you discover your love of spandex, Lycra, wetsuits, swimwear, compression gear, or other performance apparel?
MODUS VIVENDI introduces Aegean Sky, one of the standout swimwear lines from the Swimwear 2026 Collection, accompanied by the captivating Greek Vacation campaign, a visual celebration of Mediterranean summer living, freedom, and contemporary masculine elegance.
Set against the crystal-clear turquoise waters, sunlit beaches, and coastal landscapes of Greece, the Greek Vacation campaign transports viewers directly into the heart of an authentic Mediterranean escape. Through a series of striking images, MODUS VIVENDI captures the essence of the Greek summer: effortless confidence, sensuality, and the simple luxury of living in harmony with nature.
The campaign follows a modern man immersed in the beauty of island life. Whether emerging from the sea, relaxing under the shade of a classic beach umbrella, exploring rocky coastlines, or floating peacefully in sparkling waters, each moment reflects a sense of freedom and understated sophistication. The vivid blue sea, endless skies, and natural sunlight create a breathtaking backdrop that perfectly complements the collection’s refreshing aesthetic.
Inspired by the endless blue horizons of the Aegean Sea and the carefree spirit of Greek island living, Greek Vacation celebrates a lifestyle where style feels instinctive and effortless. The imagery conveys strength and masculinity without excess, allowing the natural beauty of the surroundings and the distinctive swimwear designs to take center stage. More than a campaign, Greek Vacation is an invitation to embrace the Mediterranean way of life—where every day feels like an escape, every shoreline becomes a destination, and every moment is defined by sun, sea, and timeless style.
At the heart of the campaign is Aegean Sky, a fresh and sophisticated line of luxury men’s swimwear inspired by the iconic colors and tranquil beauty of the Greek summer. Crafted from lightweight premium quick-drying printed fabric, the collection highlights an exclusive all-over customized MODUS VIVENDI Aegean Sky print. The design blends refreshing aqua-blue tones with soft white clouds, flying seagulls, and elegant vertical stripes, creating a visual tribute to the endless meeting point of sea and sky. The result is a distinctive Mediterranean-inspired pattern that captures the freedom, serenity, and optimism of summer by the water.
Designed for men who seek both comfort and refined style, the Aegean Sky collection offers a versatile range of beachwear essentials, including classic swim briefs, relaxed-fit swim shorts, and a coordinating bucket hat. Each piece combines functionality with contemporary design, delivering effortless elegance for beach days, poolside relaxation, and luxury resort escapes.
With its fresh color palette, signature print, and impeccable fit, Aegean Sky embodies the MODUS VIVENDI philosophy of premium craftsmanship, confident masculinity, and modern Mediterranean style.
One big element of Free the Bulge will be Travel. I want to plan and take small and large trips with guys who want to go to sunny, fun places (note: I didn’t say Sunny, fun places). There are a lot of places I want to go, and I think a group of underwear-and-gear guys going with me would be incredible.
Blacks Beach, San Diego – this has been on my list for a while, and it’s the perfect place for guys into Speedos and thongs to go, especially if it’s a first time. It’s a nude beach, but anything can be worn. It’s a trek to get to, but I hear it’s awesome.
Palm Springs – Another place I haven’t been. Thonger’s weekend is there in July, but I want to plan a trip in the cooler months as a weekend or week getaway to lie in the sun and relax.
FTL/Haulover Beach – Notice a theme? Yeah, these are all beaches or places to lie out, but they are also very friendly thong/speedo places. Haulover is the nude beach, and there are plenty of resorts in FTL.
Tight Storm – Let’s go international and go to Tight Storm and have some spandex fun. I hear this is an amazing event, and Europe is the home of the Lycra community. I think getting 3-4 guys to go would be awesome. And this is in Austria.
London – For many reasons: underwear shopping and, hopefully, a Grip event as well. London would be amazing to go to, and find some underwear shops. Plus, there are a lot of guys. Who listens to the podcast in London? A meet-up will be scheduled at a pub or another location.
Puerto Vallarta, Mexico – this would be amazing when the rest of the country is cold and shoveling snow to be on the beach and relaxing. I definitely want this as a winter trip. It would be amazing!!!
Toronto, Canada – I haven’t been to Toronto since I was in my 20s; it’s time to go back and have fun. There is a ton to do in the city, and yes, they have an underwear store. We at UNB love our Canadian neighbors and should go support and meet our Canadian listeners, and I’m sure I can convince some other guys to go with me.
Melbourne, Australia – The top of the bucket list is Melbourne, and we have heard some great things about underwear nights and such from the guys down there. So we must go and have a great time with our Aussie friends. And I say Melbourne because all of my Aussie friends are from there, and I say to skip Sydney (hey, but if we are traveling that far, we are hitting Sydney for a night or two, so I can climb the bridge, another bucket list item for me). This would be in February, we need summer time!!!
This is a rough list I’ve put together, and I’d love to hear where you guys want to go. I would love to do more international locations, even if we are going to sightsee, we are guys who love the same things, we can track down some local brands and stores, and have fun. And we are also looking at a cruise! Let me know your thoughts.
MODUS VIVENDI introduces the Dynamic Line and its new SS26 campaign, Sunday Vibes, a playful and provocative celebration of effortless summer living, where comfort, sensuality, and attitude come together in perfect harmony.
This summer, the Dynamic Line boy knows exactly what he’s doing. Between poolside phone calls, watering the plants, and lounging around in barely there cotton essentials, every moment feels soft, carefree, and irresistibly seductive. Bathed in sunlight and wrapped in candy colored hues, the campaign transforms everyday routines into scenes of effortless temptation.
Featuring baby blues, playful stripes, nostalgic tones, and skin kissed by the summer heat, Sunday Vibes captures a domestic fantasy infused with confidence and understated eroticism. From slow mornings to warm midnight encounters, the Dynamic Line becomes the ultimate expression of relaxed masculinity and contemporary sensuality.
The collection itself is crafted from premium pure knitted cotton blended with elastane, delivering exceptional softness, flexibility, and support. Designed for comfort, performance, and bold style, the Dynamic Line redefines modern men’s underwear through breathable fabrics and an athletic inspired fit that moves naturally with the body.
Distinctive color combinations give the line its unmistakable identity: pale blue with brown accents, earthy beige paired with aqua details, and vibrant cobalt blue and red elevated by shocking pink contrast trims. Refined matching waistbands and bold retro inspired palettes create a visually striking aesthetic that balances sporty energy with nostalgic charm.
The collection includes every essential silhouette, from athletic jockstraps to timeless boxers, alongside sleek tank tops designed for modern activewear styling. Inspired by the spirit of 1980s sportswear and vintage athletic underwear, the Dynamic Line blends retro influences with contemporary functionality for the confident, active man who values both style and comfort.
With Sunday Vibes, MODUS VIVENDI invites you to embrace a summer of ease, heat, and unapologetic self expression, from morning to midnight.
For 150 years, BIKE® Athletic has been one of the most iconic names in men’s athletic gear. Now, UNB Store is proud to bring this legendary brand to our customers.
The Original. Since 1874.
Founded in 1874, BIKE® Athletic changed men’s apparel forever with the invention of the athletic supporter. Originally designed for Boston cyclists navigating rough city streets, the jockstrap quickly became an essential piece of gear for athletes across America.
Over the next century and a half, BIKE® would become synonymous with support, performance, and confidence, producing more than 350 million jockstraps and earning its place as one of the most recognizable names in sports history.
More Than a Legacy
While BIKE® is famous for creating the original jockstrap, the brand continues to evolve for today’s generation. Modern collections combine comfort, style, performance, and support in gear designed for active lifestyles both on and off the field.
Built for movement and made to last, BIKE® remains committed to creating products that help you feel confident every day.
Designed for Everyone
BIKE® embraces individuality, inclusion, and self-expression. The brand’s collections are created for a diverse community of men looking for products that perform as well as they look.
Whether you’re a longtime fan of the iconic jockstrap or discovering the brand for the first time, BIKE® offers a blend of heritage and modern design that continues to stand the test of time.
A True American Classic
Rich in history and built on a foundation of comfort and confidence, BIKE® has spent 150 years supporting generations of men. The original is still going strong.
Warmer weather has arrived, which means pool party season is here. If your weekends are filling up with time by the water, rooftop gatherings, and beach trips, now is the perfect moment to get your swimwear ready.
N2N Bodywear is bringing summer energy with the new NORTH STAR Collection. With a bold, eye-catching print made for sunny days, this collection updates some of N2N’s most popular styles for the season.
The NORTH STAR SPORT is great for anyone who wants more coverage without giving up style. Its main feature is a waistband without elastic. Instead, you get a drawcord-only waistband that lets you adjust the fit and choose how high or low to wear it. This design focuses on comfort, confidence, and making the suit fit your needs.
Whether you’re relaxing by the pool, swimming, or showing up at a summer event, the NORTH STAR SPORT offers a fun, sporty look with lots of personality. Summer comes just once a year, so make it memorable.
This week on the Brief Talk Podcast, Tim sits down with Travis Kent for one of the most honest and thoughtful conversations we’ve had in a while. What starts as a discussion about thongs, body positivity, and feeling comfortable in your own skin quickly turns into a deeper conversation about confidence, fear, consent, authenticity, anxiety, and what it really means to show up as yourself.
Travis talks about growing up in a very heteronormative environment where underwear choices were limited to what society deemed “acceptable” for men. As he became more comfortable with who he was, he began exploring different styles of underwear and swimwear as forms of comfort and self-expression. For him, wearing thongs isn’t about showing off — it’s about feeling present in his body and embracing what makes him feel good.
One of the biggest topics of the episode centers around a reel Travis posted discussing the difference between body positivity and sexual solicitation. He explains how many people mistake confidence, comfort, or minimal clothing as an invitation for sexual attention or inappropriate behavior. The conversation expands into how often consent is ignored in gay spaces and why it’s important for the LGBTQ community to continue challenging normalized behaviors around touching, harassment, and personal boundaries.
Tim and Travis also dive into the pressures many gay men feel in their twenties to fit into certain expectations and personas before eventually learning to embrace who they truly are. Travis shares how he stopped curating himself for the approval of others and began showing up more authentically online and in life.
Another major takeaway from the episode is Travis’ perspective on fear and confidence. He shares the idea that confidence doesn’t have to come first in order to try something new. Sometimes growth comes from challenging fear directly instead of waiting to feel ready. It’s a message that applies to everything from wearing a Speedo for the first time to speaking up for yourself in uncomfortable situations.
The episode also touches on anxiety, mental health, and Travis’ love of crochet and fiber arts. He explains how crochet has become both an artistic outlet and a calming practice that helps regulate anxiety and quiet the mind through repetitive movement and creative focus.
This episode is thoughtful, vulnerable, funny, and full of moments that will probably make you stop and think about your own experiences with confidence, fear, authenticity, and community.
MODUS VIVENDI unveils Color Blocked, the striking new campaign introducing the Mondrian Swimwear Line from the Swimwear 2026 Collection. A bold fusion of modern art, movement, and contemporary men’s beachwear. Inspired by the iconic geometric compositions and primary color palette of legendary Dutch artist Piet Mondrian, the campaign transforms the spirit of abstract modernism into a powerful expression of confidence, sensuality, and summer freedom.
Set against a dynamic backdrop where color and motion collide, Color Blocked celebrates individuality through clean lines, daring contrasts, and sculpted silhouettes designed to command attention. Vibrant color blocking becomes more than a visual statement, it becomes an attitude. Every frame captures the energy of a living canvas, where the body moves through sunlight and water with effortless style and unapologetic presence.
The Mondrian Swimwear Line redefines designer men’s swimwear through a collection of statement-making pieces crafted from all-over customized MODUS VIVENDI printed fabric. Featuring bold geometric patterns and vivid color contrasts, the line delivers a visually striking aesthetic while maintaining exceptional comfort and functionality through fast-drying, elasticated materials.
The collection includes sleek men’s swim briefs, Brazil-cut swim boxers, and classic swim shorts, each designed with modern precision and a flawless fit. Complementing the swimwear are coordinated beachwear essentials including a lightweight printed shirt, a matching bucket hat, and a printed shawl, allowing for a complete head-to-toe summer look.
Blending artistic heritage with contemporary fashion, the Mondrian Swimwear Line captures the essence of bold self-expression and elevated resort style. With Color Blocked, MODUS VIVENDI invites men to step into a world where art becomes movement, color becomes identity, and every beach or poolside appearance becomes a statement of modern sensuality.
When I came up with the name “Free the Bulge,” it was meant to draw attention to the campaign. It’s not about being provocative, showing off, being overly sexual, or even just showing your body. It’s about feeling comfortable in your own skin and having the confidence to wear what you love. This isn’t about getting approval from others, or because your body changed, or because you suddenly became fearless. It’s about showing up, celebrating small wins, and building on them.
Showing up is Harder than you think:
I know you hear our podcasts and hear about guys going to thonger weekends or the beach, just dropping their shorts and being out there for everyone to see. Many of us, myself included, wear board shorts over Speedos, avoid bold colors to stay unnoticed, cover up at the beach or pool, skip posting pictures in our gear, and avoid trying new things. Lately, I’ve been working on going to the pool or beach without putting on shorts to walk around. I just wear the swim brief and try not to worry about it.
I think a lot of us ask, “Is it okay to wear this?” instead of, “Do I like wearing this?” We let what we think others value cloud our own judgment and tell ourselves, “No, I shouldn’t wear this” for whatever reason. Try asking yourself if you like it, and if the answer is yes, go ahead and wear it.
The Rules No One Gave us:
Growing up as men, we had a lot of rules to follow. But who made these rules we stick to? How long have they been around, and do we really need to follow them now? Let’s take a look at some of these rules:
Don’t stand out.
Don’t wear bright colors.
Don’t show confidence.
Don’t wear fitted gear.
Don’t care too much about appearance.
Don’t look “too gay.”
Don’t look too confident.
I think we ended up with these rules because they were reinforced by the media, our families, friends, and even locker room culture. It’s time for us, as men, to break these rules and create new ones that reflect who we really are, not some old idea of what a man or masculinity should be.
Confidence isn’t the same as attention.
Confidence isn’t about hoping people notice you. It’s about feeling good in what you’re wearing. We all have our own struggles, and honestly, there’s nothing wrong with showing off and getting attention. But most of us wear what we do because it makes us feel great. It fits well and highlights our best features. You feel sexy wearing it, and that confidence comes through. It also shows who you are. I love bold colors and prints, but not everyone wants to wear a pink flamingo swim brief.
It feels great when you get to the point where you’re not looking for validation and just wear what you love. The first few times you put on that thong or swim brief, you might feel self-conscious, but after a while, it starts to feel natural. Eventually, it becomes part of who you are, and you stop worrying about what others think.
Showing up looks different for everyone.
What does showing up mean? There’s no single answer. For one guy, wearing a swim brief in public is a way to show up and help make swim briefs more accepted in his community. For another, just having the courage to buy a swim brief is a big step. Everyone is at a different point in their journey, and we should encourage each other to keep going.
There are other ways to show up, like posting a picture online. I know this can be hard—I struggle with it too. Putting yourself out there and being vulnerable isn’t easy. We’re sharing a big part of ourselves with the world. Everyone has their own body issues, and we’re often our own harshest critics. But we, myself included, need to start posting pictures and sharing what we love.
Another way to show up is by telling someone else that you love underwear, swim briefs, swim thongs, or gear. Saying it out loud is powerful. When you meet someone who understands you and lets you be yourself, it’s a huge relief and can open up your world.
Your Story doesn’t need to look like everyone else’s
This means your journey is your own. While others may influence you, it’s still your path, and you get to decide what you wear, how you share it, and with whom. Not everyone wants to wear a thong, share pictures, or stand out. It’s not about becoming someone else—it’s about becoming more of who you truly are. Try what you want, and if you don’t like something, that’s okay.
Build Community, Don’t Perform
Showing off is fun, and lots of guys in the community enjoy it, but there’s more to our community than just showing off your gear or how good you look in it. It’s also about building connections. Notice new guys, encourage them with comments or DMs, and make them feel welcome. If someone messages you about what brand you wore or how something fits, be friendly. Ask questions and have a real conversation, not just one-word replies.
When you start talking to someone, go beyond just talking about gear. Gear brings us together, but we all have other interests and hobbies. I think it’s great when a conversation turns into a real friendship and you get to know the person. Have real conversations, and then bring up underwear or Speedos too. Friends get to know each other and share who they are.
We need to celebrate confidence at every level. I try to comment on pictures and tell guys how great they look, giving positive feedback. Remember to support guys who aren’t muscle gods—regular and bigger guys need encouragement too. Step out of your comfort zone and be a positive force in the community.
My Challenge to You
What does showing up look like for me, and what do I want you guys to do?
– Wear that swim brief you have put away, break it out and wear it!
– Wear some fun colors, I say, if you think people are going to stare, give them a reason to stare, wear a bold pink thong, neon bikini, or my favorite Flamingos.
– Compliment someone online you don’t know, tell them how good they look.
– Don’t apologize for what you like to wear, wear it, and let’s normalize it for all guys.
– Share your story. We all have a story, and we should share our origin story; it doesn’t have to be on the podcast. You could share on your social media.
What is Free the Bulge
Free the Bulge was never about being the loudest person in the room. It’s not about proving anything or showing off. It’s about showing up as your true self. It’s about welcoming others into the community and being a friendly face. I love talking to people, so send me a DM or email and let’s chat. Let’s make this the best community we can, welcoming our gay, straight, and bi brothers. Underwear and gear aren’t about sexuality—they’re about letting ourselves feel sexy, confident, and welcome. Let’s grow this movement together.
One brand I know a lot of our thong guys love is N2N Bodywear. They just released Dreamy thong in two really fun colors, ,Olive and Salmon. The sexy thong is super fun with these colors. Why go boring when you can go bold.
I have floated the idea for trying out the most famous white briefs. That includes Haynes, FOTL, Stafford, ,and Jockey. The only downside is that you can have to buy them in packs of six! What ever happened to the three packs? I’m calling on you guys, especially white brief guys, who want a full podcast of me talking about my experience in white briefs to shop my amazon wish list. I don’t do this much but this is something I think would benefit the entire podcast population.
I’m actually kinda excited to try them again. Wear Tighties has been amazing and I really enjoy them.
Also, what you will hear on the podcast:
My growing up wearing FOTL briefs
Why I stopped wearing them
When I started back giving them a try (CK and 2(X)ist
How the podcast has influenced me with white briefs
What I think of each pair and will I put them in my rotation.
I want to do more of these types of shows along with reviews. But I need your help to make this possible, Join the Patreon so we can buy underwear and give you our honest opinions of pairs. This will be the start of this journey.
